January 26, 2008

Love- Part 2

In my previous post about love I mentioned that my undergrad degree helped me make a thesis on different categories or ways of falling in love.After coming here for my Masters I decided to research on ways of breaking up with your dear ones as that is what is very common amongst the Indian community here.'Love' and 'Relationship Analysis' has always been one of my favourite topics to research on,wish Texas A&M University hires me as a Research Assistant in their Public Affairs department after my posts on Love and related matters.There are again 4 ways of breaking up with your sweetheart!! In fact four different ways of telling the other person BUZZ off.Lets avoid after marriage talks and stick on the normal romantic affairs and the after effects.Here are my 4 theories.
1.Long Distance Relationships:Love has no distances some say.May be true,b ut after getting used to the free Airtel-Airtel calls in India,there is high probability of breaking up if one goes abroad and switches to Reliance India Calling card.With the initial hype and care about your loved ones in India ,there is a general trend of breaking up after getting AT&T connection.Initial days of frustration,loneliness,assistantship hunts,for people who have been in a relationship find it hard to get out of the whole thing by making regular calls to India and there you look at your credit card balance and realise 'wish my sweetheart had an AT&T connection' and then u turn back and see somebody patting on your shoulder and yea you have somebody close to you,who can understand u better and who is gonna have an H1 soon and wow he/she has AT&T..Lots of freedom,no worries that anybody is gonna find out,so yes I broke up with her/him..Coz long distances never work out..:P
2.Girls..sheesh,guys complain that they are emotional and they want early commitment,they talk about marriage and engagement.Commitment Phobia.Cmon, guys need time..Marriage and family are secondary..This is the problem if you fall love for a guy of your age...Trust my thesis,its very hard for a guy to think about marrying before he is 26 (oops I think even thats early)!!For the their career,their dreams,everything has to be set and yea may be when their bored of all this,they might consider a marriage
3.Religion:When you fall in love you are atheist,you respect all religions,You feel you know more about your lover's religion than your religion,try to convince each other that we are modern couples,we dont give a damn about religion,But the verb 'convert' is the villain,many agree to conquer their love and many not.There you have a simple reason.I cant go against my family!!Yes You cant and you shouldn't..
4.Yes..This is the most interesting Chemistry..Its not long distance,Its the weird chemistry,the straight line becomes triangle,you no longer love your partner,you no longer think she/he is attractive,you have a zillion reasons to avoid each other.What not!!Beauty of this theory is that it Has a clause.Many a times this happens when there is a third person involved in the relationship.You have a comparison specimen.Yes there you go...;)
Well like the 5 th theory in my Love Part-1 There are a couple of people who break up before they fall in love,may be because they haven't attended CVEN 644 Risk Anlaysis-Techniques and Modeling.You are as usual confused whether you are in or out of something,so the best way is to break up .From what??That's what I am trying to find out..:)

Well this was my humble effort to give away my dark side writing and write something different..This is dedicated to those Anonymous readers of my Blog..Yes I can write something different..;)Though I failed in it..
Cheers and happy Break ups!!!

10 comments:

Ajith said...

First, Thanks for installing blogpane :) ..About the post, love is 90 percent convenience and 10 % emotions :) .

Bhadra said...

Thanks Ajith for a valuable point which would add to my thesis..

Horatio said...

quite a piece of work
whats the motivation ?

Bhadra said...

Motivation.Well Not my personal exp..That all I can say..[:P]

vintace said...

Oro prabhathavum vidarnnu varunnathu priyasakhiyude madhumandasmitham thookiya sameepyam pakarnnu nalkanaano ennu nishayude yathramozhikalil ullasichu ninavukal samshayaroopena mandrichirunnu. Rasakaramennu parayatte, annonnum pranaya saaphalyam ennathu enthineyaanu prathinidhanam cheyyunnathu ennu sankalpichirunnilla. Kalpithamaayoru aakarshanam AT&T yude samagravalayathe adisthanamaayi venam ennullathu alpam vedanaajanakam thanne. ennirunnalum, kuttiyude Thesis gambheeramaayirukkunnu. Thudarnnum pratheekshikkamallo! swanthamaayi blog illatha oru anuvachakante sargavedanaanirmarjanamargamanu ee anyabhasha prayogam ennu karuthi kshamikkanam.

Bhadra Nair said...

Ayyo Chetta kollalle!!!

Anphy said...

well, u deserve that research assistantship :D
my first comment here though i started reading a few months back

Bhadra Nair said...

Thanks Anphy.I too sneak into your bog often..:P

Abid said...

funny stuff. but id say there is also boredom

another thing is we find things that we want. if we want a relationship, we find hazaar tings we appreciate about a person. and if we wanna break up, its easy to find faults

OR may be familiarity breeds contempt


OR may be u r bored

OR may be another totally hot femme fatale :)

Muralikrishna Pattathil said...

Hi Bhadra
I agree completely to your views! An Excellent Article at that! It's a great feeling that you happen to be my little sister who played the guitar so beautifully on that snowy evening in April 1997 (When you were in your 7th standard) that I still vividly remember and when I remember it, tears roll down my eyes! You are the first person in this world to touch my feet and seek blessings! May God Bless You With Infinite Abundance!
Yours Loving Brother
Murali